This is last month of the year, I was looking back at what I have accomplished. For some strange reason my performance review at my work is being dragged from last three months, Oh!.. That is not the subject of this post. When I was looking at my life … What was surprising for me was I have achieved (or rather have) what I said some 5 years back.
You closely observe your life, your life is conversation you have about your life. You may not agree but I’m inviting you to experience for yourself.
When you say life is tough, you have difficulty.
When you say life is not fair, someone has duped you.
When you say life is struggle, you are struggling
When you say Accept life as it is, you have as it is life.
When you say life is full of problems, you have problems.
When you say life is boring, you have boredom.
When you say life is adventure, you have adventure
When you say life is game, you have game
When you say life is fun, you have fun
When you say life is journey, you have journey
When you say life is ______. You have ______
Further …. When I say life is fun, I have fun, it is not just what I say, It is actually what I say to myself. (just observe once you experience that it is amazing ! )
At this point I don’t how to train or control my inner voice/conversation but one thing which I have read and agree is we can work on our language we speak. Focus on what You want to accomplish and Not on what you don’t want to accomplish !
For example : if you want to reach office on time , always say “I must reach ON TIME” rather than “I should NOT GO LATE”, instead of saying “I should not FAIL” say “I should PASS”
See you then !